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Someone once told me, well, actually, she’s told me this alot…You can’t live anybody else’s eternity for them.

At First I didn’t really get it, like, it sounded right, and it sounded profound, but I didn’t really get it.

Now I get it.

I am the only one who can live my eternity. I am the only one who can choose my actions, and I’m the one who has to live with the repercussions. Even if they affect other people, it’s my fault, and I have to deal with it.

But what this is really getting at is the actions of others. Actions that might affect us, or actions that we know will affect someone we care about. But no one can live anybody else’s eternity. I can’t make other people make the right choices and I can’t make the results of those choices go away. Even if someone I care about is choosing to do something that will ruin their life, and it will kill me to see that happen, I can’t live their eternity for them. It’s their decision, they chose it.

I can’t make my family and friends stop smoking, or other substances that harm them. I can’t make everyone go to heaven. And even though it will kill me to see what cigarettes or hell will do these people, it was what they chose.

I think this is what people forget when they ask why God would let people go to hell, too. God is letting you live your own eternity. If you choose not to love God, why would you want to spend eternity with him? He loves you enough to give you the choice to spend eternity with him, or away from him. You have two options. Free will. And even though God knows choosing him would be for our benefit, he lets us choose what we want. He wants us to love him because we choose to, not because we are robots that are programmed or told to. That’s why he gave us free will, and that’s why we have a place to go other than heaven after we die. We sinned, we chose to go there, but he gives us the choice to spend eternity with him anyway.

But it’s still our choice, and our eternity. And no one, not even God, can live it for us.

Day 3 10/30/10

Posted: October 30, 2010 in Uncategorized
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Day 3: Your Views on Drugs and Alcohol

I’d rather avoid drugs and alcohol. Also, if alcohol is a drug why are we saying drugs AND alcohol. Drugs would cover it. Stupid blog idea writers. Anywho, drugs is bad. They make you do stupid things, like more drugs, drunk driving, fighting…They freaking destroy your brain cells. How the hell is that a good idea? Nothing good can come of it. Unless you’re drinking, say, one glass of wine every once in a while, which supposedly helps your heart or something. But other than that, it’s unhealthy, it affects our already bad judgment as human beings, and it’s usually illegal or will make you do something illegal.

Seriously, our judgment already sucks. Think about how many stupid, regrettable, sinful things we do every day. Then you’re going to add something that kills brain cells, numbs your senses and emotions, or, makes your emotions more extreme, which will make you act irrationally, and causes bad judgment to that? Come on. You can ruin your life, but I like mine. And others at that.

Not to mention, just doing those drugs is a sin. It’s abusing your body, which is a temple of the Holy Spirit. And when you do those stupid things like drink and drive it sets a bad example for other people, and we’re supposed to be the salt and light to the world. I think I sense a new blog post from where this is leading to. But for another time, that’s my opinion on drugs.